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My weight has been a rollercoaster, constantly fluctuating between highs and lows. Maintaining a healthy and stable weight has been a constant struggle, impacting my physical and emotional well-being. I have experienced both the negative impact of body shaming and the unrealistic expectations of being glorified for my weight. These experiences have shaped my perspective and made me more open to discussing body image complexities. As a woman with a disability and chronic illness, my weight has significantly impacted my daily life, mobility, and ability to manage my health effectively. Additionally, society's perception of body image has added an extra layer of pressure and judgment, making it even more crucial for me to address this topic openly. The sudden weight gain surprised everyone, as I had always been known for my slender figure. However, its impact on my physical and mental well-being was undeniable. It affected my mobility and ability to manage my health, intensifying the societal pressure and judgment surrounding body image. This made it even more imperative for me to openly address and confront my weight issue. Ironically, on the flip side, when I gained weight, people stopped treating me as a child and started treating me as an adult. It was as if my physical appearance had suddenly granted me newfound maturity and responsibility. This shift in perception further emphasized that the world judges by appearance. It became abundantly clear that my physical appearance significantly impacted how society perceived my value. Now, I am twenty pounds lighter after developing a mysterious chronic illness. This sudden change in my health only reinforced the notion that appearances can be deceiving. Despite my weight loss, society's perception of me shifted again due to my declining health. It was depressing to realize that even in the face of a severe illness, people still heavily valued my physical appearance. If I had a penny for every time I heard eat a damn burger, fries, and a milkshake while you're at it, I wouldn't have to worry about paying ten dollars for a McDonald's quarter-pounder meal. All jokes aside, the constant comments and judgments about my appearance took a toll on my mental well-being. Seeing how superficial society could be was disheartening as if my worth was solely determined by how I looked on the outside. Witnessing how society's obsession with body image overshadowed the gravity of my health condition was disheartening. The constant pressure to conform to societal beauty standards only added to the emotional burden of battling a chronic illness. I secretly love this new body even though it betrays me, as it can bring joy and pain. Like they say, if you've got it, flaunt it. I got it, and I'm finally embracing it as a reminder of the battles I've fought and the victories I've achieved. I am proud of the person I've become and have found solace in my body's strength and resilience throughout my health journey. It has taught me to appreciate the little victories and find beauty in imperfection, reminding me that self-love goes beyond societal expectations. For the first time in ten years, I can wear a full-fledged bikini without feeling self-conscious about my scars and imperfections. It's liberating to embrace my body and celebrate its resilience despite my ongoing health challenges. My journey has shown me that true beauty lies in acceptance and self-love, regardless of societal expectations. I also realized that my health forced me to prioritize self-care and focus on what truly matters. It taught me to appreciate the strength and resilience of my body. Despite my challenges, I learned to find beauty in my uniqueness and embrace a more holistic definition of well-being. There's a reason my body is betraying me that's out of my control. We need to reform women's health and reevaluate the way that professionals see women's health. It is essential to recognize that women's health issues are often dismissed or misunderstood, leading to inadequate care and support. By advocating for reform and a more inclusive approach to women's health, we can empower women to take control of their well-being. It is disheartening to witness the impact of the lack of attention given to women's health. Many individuals, like myself, feel frustrated and unheard, as our concerns are often brushed aside or not given the attention they deserve. Society must acknowledge the importance of prioritizing women's health and invest in comprehensive research, education, and healthcare services that address our unique needs. With all this said, we must create a society that values and supports women's physical and mental health. This includes breaking down stigmas surrounding women's bodies and providing accessible healthcare resources that address the diverse needs of women. By prioritizing women's health, we can empower individuals to take control of their well-being and foster a more inclusive and supportive environment for all.

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