Sip Happens, Part 5: Good Leggings, Good Friends, Good Day
- lthornton6
- 2 days ago
- 3 min read
Some things in life just don’t let you down. For me, it’s that one pair of leggings that somehow goes with everything and fits just right every single time. They’re the ones you don’t have to second-guess, the ones that work no matter what kind of day you’re having. And you know what? Good friends are a lot like that.
The magic of a solid circle of friends is the same as a reliable pair of leggings. They’re comfortable, dependable, and they remind you that you don’t have to try so hard to be loved. You can show up messy, tired, and even a little frayed around the edges, and they’ll still sit with you, laugh with you, and carry the weight of life beside you.
We live in a world that tells us to collect more, more followers, more things to prove our worth. But the truth is, you don’t need a crowd when one faithful circle of friends will show up, pray for you, and walk through the fire with you.
“Two people are better than one. When two people work together, they get more work done. If one person falls, the other can reach out to help. But those who are alone when they fall have no one to help them.”(Ecclesiastes 4:9–10, ERV)
That’s the beauty of friendship rooted in love. It’s not about perfection, it’s about presence. It’s not about impressing each other;
it’s about supporting each other.
And let me say this as someone in the disability community: those words aren’t just nice, they’re necessary. Innovation and adaptability are part of our everyday lives. We are constantly finding creative solutions to knock down barriers, embracing tools and strategies that help us thrive, and proving every day that there are many ways to
succeed. Thinking outside the box isn’t just an option for us, it’s survival.
In today’s job market, adaptability isn’t just a buzzword. It’s what sets us apart. Employers are looking for people who can bring fresh ideas and unique perspectives to the table, and the disability community is overflowing with both. By embracing non-traditional approaches, we don’t just find ways forward for ourselves; we open doors for others, too. We remind the world that everyone can work, everyone can contribute, and everyone has value. Since when have I ever done anything the traditional way anyway?
But here’s the thing. This isn’t just about careers, policies, or programs. Advocacy is about people. Real lives. Real stories. Real struggles. Every time we push for accessibility and inclusion, we’re not just checking off boxes; we’re opening doors. We’re turning isolation into connection. We’re creating communities where every voice matters, where differences aren’t just accepted but celebrated, and where nobody is left behind.
“A person has only one body, but it has many parts. And all those parts are part of that one body. In the same way, all of us in Christ are like one body.”(1 Corinthians 12:12, ERV)
That’s the gospel truth. The church, the community, the body of Christ. It all works the same way. We need each other. Every single one of us has something to offer. Our differences don’t weaken us; they make us stronger. And when we work together, when we show up for one another, when we embrace the diversity God created, that’s when we see His glory shine brightest.
So yes, this is about leggings and friends. But it’s also about how those metaphors show up in real life. The right fit, the right people, the right circle of support make all the difference. Together, we hold each other up. Together, we create spaces where fear becomes hope, and where being different becomes the very thing that drives progress forward.
Ok, now my sassy self will step down off the soapbox. But I’ll leave you with this: a good day doesn’t always come from things being perfect. Sometimes it comes from the simplest blessings, the right fit, and the right people.
Latte in hand, blowout blessed, dry-shampooed and determined, messy desk and all, standing strong with good leggings, good friends, and always the gospel truth.